The truth about love, sex, and the lies the world keeps telling you.
In 21 Myths (Even Good) Girls Believe About Sex, author Jennifer Strickland helps young women separate cultural lies from biblical truth, understand God’s design for their bodies and relationships, and pursue love with passion, purity, wisdom, and grace.
What if what you have been told about sex is not the whole truth?
Maybe you want to honor God but don’t fully understand the reasons behind His design. Maybe you feel pressured to give your body away to be loved. Maybe you have made choices you regret — or someone crossed boundaries you never chose.
Whatever your story, you are not defined by it.
Perhaps you have been labeled a “good girl” or a “bad girl.” Maybe you have questions you have never felt safe enough to ask.
21 Myths will help you recognize the lies that place your body and heart at risk and replace them with the truth about God’s design for sex and marriage.
This book is rooted in truth, free from shame. Written for young women 15 & up.
This book will help young women:
- Recognize 21 common lies the culture tells women about sex, love, the body, and relationships.
- Understand the value God placed in their bodies, hearts, and souls.
- Discover why God’s design for sex is meant to protect what is precious.
- Replace shame, secrecy, and confusion with biblical truth and grace.
- Establish wise boundaries and respond to pressure with confidence.
- Find hope and healing from past experiences and choices.
- Build a vision for love, singleness, relationships, and marriage that is worth waiting for.
Endorsed by the leaders who shape women & girls
Pastors, authors, and ministry leaders are putting this book into the hands of the women and girls they love.
Sex is too important to forget why God created it. No matter who you are, this book is for you. Prepare to be challenged… This book could change you, it may heal you, it could save your marriage — and even prepare you for marriage. Make no mistake, this book is a game changer.
Jennifer Strickland is a wonderful writer and speaker with one of the most important messages to girls of this generation. I highly recommend this book.
Honesty, experience, passion, and sensitivity… life-giving truths that cleanse, transform, and heal. This book should be read by every teenage girl — and will bring renewed hope to women of all ages who have allowed past choices to keep them in bondage.
As someone who has literally been on the inside of the media machine as a model, Jennifer knows what she’s talking about when it comes to battling media messages and replacing them with God’s truth. I highly recommend her work!
I wish someone had handed me this guidepost the day I turned fifteen. Jennifer authentically delivers a hard-hitting, refreshing message about the beauty and integrity of God’s design for sex — which every girl and young woman needs to hear.
Grace-filled, honest, and overflowing with love. The insight and wisdom into the forbidden topic of sex opens the door for REAL conversation that renews, restores, and redeems hope, joy, beauty, and trust.
Authentic and truth-filled — a relevant reminder of God’s design for sex, love, and intimacy. As a mom of two tween daughters, this resource will be a ‘go-to’ for many years to come. Highly recommended!
She reveals the truth about sex — that purity does not inhibit physical pleasure but liberates us to enjoy sex the way it was designed to be: pleasure without pain or remorse.
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The Book
Twenty-one common lies about sex are confronted with biblical truth — helping young women understand God’s design for their bodies, protect their hearts, and pursue love with passion, purity, and grace.
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Group Leader Kit
Everything you need to lead young women through 21 Myths: 5 copies of the book, access to five powerful story-based videos, and the Leader Guide included free. Perfect for youth groups, schools, mentoring, and small groups of young women. Recommended for older teens and young women ages 15+.
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Video Series
Five powerful videos weave together women’s real experiences with abuse, shame, pregnancy, body image, sexual choices, healing, love, and marriage. Use them alongside the book or watch them together to open honest, grace-filled conversations. Recommended for older teens and young women ages 15+.
Watch the Series →Everyone is talking to your daughter about sex — isn’t it time someone told her the truth? 21 Myths gives moms, mentors, and youth leaders the words to start the conversation with honesty, warmth, and grace.
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